Breaking off an engagement My fiance(x) and I(x) are living with his family sharing a two bedroom house with x people! I moved here x miles away from my family after his mother was diagnosed with a disease and the plan was that when his mother was well we would move back to my town as I am an only child and all my family is there plus I have a couple houses there rent free. He has recently let me know that he will never move to my town that he will not leave the city and that I am just being selfish. I made a deal with him to stay here and forfeit finishing my nursing degree if he would better himself by going to GED classes he went about x times and then quit going saying that he doesnt have enough time with work even though he has plenty. His family constantly has him driving them here and there and his cousin has him taking her to all of her babies doctors appointments which really hurts as I have been told I cannot have children. These problems cause huge and on a couple of occassions physical fights and I just dont know what to do anymore. I have been ed heartless and selfish by him and others because I voice my wish to go home. I understand that his family is important to him but mine is as well and he doesnt see that. I just want to know from completely unbias people if I would be right in leaving or if I truly am the heartless, selfish bitch that he says I am. Thank you for any input :)

sounds like you should break it off! find happiness!

You just need courage

What kind of dumb answer is that?

really, she needs liquid courage

It's the smart kind

I'm glad your a man of so few words I hate it when we have to read stupid shit for any length of time.

Sometimes the handle fits.

But you read all my posts I'm flattered Realy

Because I always have this hope that you will post something significant for once. And everytime you let me down. Thats alright. We wouldn't want you to be any other way.

Dump his loser ass

You can go. You will live a good life without him. Get your degree and find a man who loves you. You realize you should have left when he was violent. It's not too late now. I want to give you a big hug :) You're gonna be fine!

Or a REAL crappywith him...