in the ass whats it feel like to get fucked in the ass

absolutely wonderful!!!! but only with the right person

well do you cum. do you have an orgasm?

yes

what about long term effects? Is it really true that the next day some people loose control of their bowels

Actually, that is a long term effect that CAN happen over a LONG period of excessive anal sex, whether you are male or female. The next day effect? most likely you would be sore. Some horror stories of people "losing control" is after the person doing the lubing empties a half to whole bottle of lube into them. You should always use more lube than you think, but.. a half bottle? its excessive.

why so much lube? i know its tight but does it hurt? does it feel better after a few times?

Its a matter of... Several different factors. The more you receive anal stimulation, the more you become used to it. That is the same for vaginal, or even oral. (practice makes perfect) The reason it"hurts" is a couple of factors. For women, the vagina gives you the secretions that make the lube that give you a happy time. Your ass does not make its own lubrication. (Its the water from your body that makes the excrement leave easier, as water is a lubricant) And, the vagina stretches "naturally" meaning, its the body part that is supposed to do the work. Your anal muscles can be stretched, but until much patience and practice is done, it tends to be very tight. Think about it, women can shove a bowling ball size kid out the front, but whats the largest thing you ever shit out? It does get better with time and practice, if you and or your partner is willing to put in the correct amount of time to get the maximum enjoyment out of it.

what about fingering could i cum if i fingered myself?

Yes, it is in theory possible. Women have been known to orgasm just from nipple play, so why not. Prostrate stimulation for men, or women if done right can be very pleasurable. There is also the factor of its level of "kinkyness" for you. The more kinky you think it is, the more you wind yourself up. When you get to the action, and are very ready because you are excited? Yes, I can see you orgasming from the stimulation between your mind and your body.

a dildo would do the trick?

Yes, and yet no. While a regular vibrator MAY do the trick, they do sell specific anal stimulating vibes. I would suggest that if you really wish to try it, to invest the couple of dollars for one. You wouldnt use a spoon when you need a fork, would you? (and leave the hallowed SPORK alone :-P ) Yes, a normal vibe can help you. I personally think a specific anal stimulating vibe would just do better. Play with the speeds, thrusting, and of course a large bottle of lube.

I've used regular vibrators and they didn't do much when turned on, moving it around gently did more. Never tried an anal dildo, but what you say makes sense to my analytical mind.

And thats what I am using, simple logic. I find the thought of anal very erotic. The topic is a kink for me. Not so much the action of it, but I have studied the subject so I am knowledgeable in its aspects. Which is why I ed whoever negged me, if I am wrong, then educate me. I dont mind the act, and I dont mind if I get my prostrate stimulated. I can certainly live without giving or receiving, but for me to think about the act or see a pornographic movie about it, really gets me hyped up. Ehhh we all have our different triggers, this topic is mine.

aloe would aloe be a good lube since its all natural?

No, it gets absorbed into the skin very quickly.

I agree with Fred Z... Buy a lubricant. They have water based lubes for easier clean up, but you do tend to use a bit more. I have nothing against natural products, but in some cases, I prefere science.

Guys can through prostate stimulation. They've even been able to use electrostimulation on the prostate to make men who are paralyzed from the waist down ejaculate so their SOs could go through artificial insemination and have children of their own. Which, as a long time foster parent, bugs me a little. Let's take care of the ones already here before we go making more.

Okay, if you are going to neg me... at least post WHY. Dont like me? So the fuck what. If I am wrong in what I said? Then post the correct information that I may learn, and the people who read it. Dont be a coward. It does noany good.

what?

Honey you nailed it on the head! Bravo!

now THAT'S some useful info thanks!

Hello Sir Dax

Umm good. but I fly when he is doing it so I hardly rememeber it.