Getting divorced after x yrs
My husband and I are separated but living in the same house. I can't afford to move out just yet (x more months). I am initiating the divorce, he is not abusive in the sense that most people understand but he is passive-aggressive. I didn't know what that was until recently. He is unable/unwilling to take care his responsibilities and his inability to make a decision has weighed me down for years. He also has had low testoserone for all our married life (we had trouble conceiving & found this out during testing)but refused to take anything for it, so we have had a minimal sex life, much to my unhappiness, for all these years as well. I just got a new job, I haven't worked outside the home for years (not great but I can support myself and it has lots of potential) and I am saving up to become independent of him. It's sad but a relief as well. I guess what I'm saying is, I'm x and if I can do it anyone can. I have my moments, fear, worry, anxiety but I keep working on it. It can be a good thing, extreme change in middle age is not impossible.