First of all...
you have a nice turn of phrase! It's nice to meet someone in here who is not an utter nabob! As to the "fuzzy end," I disagree. Statistics can be easily manipulated. If I ask x men and x women who was worse off in their divorce them or the spouse, you can guess the answer. But if I then "decide" that I will define "worse off" as X, Y, Z, in favor ofparty or the other, the stat gets, well...fuzzy. And that's what we do in American culture, define the fuzzy end of the lolipop to favor women.years ago, you'd have looked at MY divorce from the outside and said, "golly, they haveof those GREAT divorces!" That was BEFORE I found out she, in her own x-year runup to divorcing me, had stolen $x,x from me.