Getting divorced after x yrs My husband and I are separated but living in the same house. I can't afford to move out just yet (x more months). I am initiating the divorce, he is not abusive in the sense that most people understand but he is passive-aggressive. I didn't know what that was until recently. He is unable/unwilling to take care his responsibilities and his inability to make a decision has weighed me down for years. He also has had low testoserone for all our married life (we had trouble conceiving & found this out during testing)but refused to take anything for it, so we have had a minimal sex life, much to my unhappiness, for all these years as well. I just got a new job, I haven't worked outside the home for years (not great but I can support myself and it has lots of potential) and I am saving up to become independent of him. It's sad but a relief as well. I guess what I'm saying is, I'm x and if I can do it anyone can. I have my moments, fear, worry, anxiety but I keep working on it. It can be a good thing, extreme change in middle age is not impossible.

good for you!

well aren't your panties in a wad today !!!

They always are when this bitch posts bullshit like she does. Below we have a woman that stole and sold property to be divided, yet bitcangel thinks that's just fine. If it was turned around, she'd be going after the guy like a rabid buttmonkey and that the truth! MPP is pathetic and one sick bitch. Her advise should never be accepted.

xoxo

you need hugs it must suck to be so angry all the time at someone you don't even know sorry your never got hugs as a kid

Your assumptions are just as sick as your biased responses. I pity the poor people seeking help and having you respond to them. This isn't about me, it's about you and you being a pathetic bitch that lives here x/x instead of taking care of the supposed you have. You need a slap on the face as a wake up to you being such a bitch!

LMAO isn't it great to be loved ??

wonderful, lol

Such an eloquent expression of crap, and such energy to type it I'm enjoying the last of the weekend, how about you?

I am, but my peace and solitude are about to end as I leave to pick up the girlie in x minutes and the boy heads back down the mountain at x. I hope you have a wonderful new year.

You too I am just about completely over the past x months, I can finally relax - a little. I did use this weekend to get all my taxes ready lol.

LMAO! Keep your fantasy life alive! How sad and pathetic you are. What's even worse is you've got others believing your lies. If they only knew the real you they'd abandon you in a heartbeat!

wow Thats a long time to be married. I have only been married for x but I dont see it going on much further. Be strong good things will happen!!

Thanks, I really think it will be good soon.

I get you I can totally relate to you. People who have lived it, understand it. I am hoping for a new job.that can also help me to live independently also. We tried to live in the same house together because of money, but because of his ignorant pride, he refused. He said that he couldn't live with me if we weren't working on the marriage. There was nothing to work on. He had gone to prison for God's sake. To me that was the ultimate betrayal. I tried to do whatever it took to make our ren's lives happy. I wanted to go to school to earn a degree. He wasn't willing to do that either. Now he is set on this vendetta of ruining me financially because I don't want him anymore. His words. I wish you much luck in your endeavors to find happiness. Trust me, I know it's hard. I feel like throwing in the towel all the time.

Well don't, don't give him the satisfation. Good luck to you as well.